The weekend

I had such a good weekend. When you’ve been with someone for so long the normal everyday things get repetitive and boring. It’s nice to take time out and actually date. To talk, to gaze into each other’s eyes and to allow time to escape us. A year ago I would have never guessed we would be in this place. I am humble and thankful that everyday we work at finding new ways to love each other.

Not the Norm

There’s this stigma with falling out of love and moving on. We are human things change, feelings change and that’s okay. You can care for someone deeply and want the best of for them but not want to be with them. Then you have this whole online society trying to convince you other wise with memes that say. “If you loved me you wouldn’t leave me.” “you never loved me you were just using me” “your not loyal if you leave me.” What the fuck is that, of course you could have loved someone at one point of your life but don’t anymore. That doesn’t take away from the love shared and the care that still lives between the two of you. Of course you were loyal but at what point does loyalty become slavery. At what point do you become loyal and truthful to yourself and your feelings? Staying with someone to satisfy their need of you is not only disloyal to the person but also to yourself.

Do you believe in fate. Do you believe that the universe works in conjunction to give us what we need in the exact moment we need it and not a moment sooner. 

significant other

I wonder how many people make an effort to date their significant other. I wonder how many people get into the normal everyday routine and forget what it felt like to gaze into their significant others eyes. How many people have forgotten how good it felt getting lost in their kiss. I wonder how many people have forgotten their significant other all together.

outside of your realationship

Who are you outside of your relationship? Your likes your dislikes? What do you enjoy? What do you do to unwind? Do you go out with friends to eat dinner? Who are you outside of your partner? Do you even know?