Not the Norm

There’s this stigma with falling out of love and moving on. We are human things change, feelings change and that’s okay. You can care for someone deeply and want the best of for them but not want to be with them. Then you have this whole online society trying to convince you other wise with memes that say. “If you loved me you wouldn’t leave me.” “you never loved me you were just using me” “your not loyal if you leave me.” What the fuck is that, of course you could have loved someone at one point of your life but don’t anymore. That doesn’t take away from the love shared and the care that still lives between the two of you. Of course you were loyal but at what point does loyalty become slavery. At what point do you become loyal and truthful to yourself and your feelings? Staying with someone to satisfy their need of you is not only disloyal to the person but also to yourself.